Who will stay with you

Guess a deck of 36 cards. Guessing four guys from the deck select 4 jacks if guys, 4 Kings, if they are men. Put these 4 cards face down in a row. 32 maps that were carefully shuffling and decompose under each jack to 8 cards. Then we consider each 8 Man (Men) cards. The number of cards of the same suit means:

hearts - love;
clubs - the mountain;
diamonds - money;
spades - children.

Remove the guy with his cards that you do not like. We shuffle the cards that remain and decompose again under the jacks (kings). The guy who did not like the new remove. So to the last guy. The last guy is forever yours.