How to seduce a woman in 24 hours
How to seduce a woman in 24 hours
One of the eternal questions: why some men need only look at a woman, and she is ready to go to bed? What is acting here - bewitching glance? Athletic physique? Thirty-centimeter baton between your legs? Hardly. To associate sex exclusively with the size of your dick is to deliberately take the wrong path. But then what?
“Penthouse” asked me to share knowledge about what makes girls lose their heads. The result was a kind of small reference book, or, if you prefer, a textbook, and if you can precisely follow its instructions, your chosen one will probably be in your bed. With luck, you can manage in 24 hours.
The main thing is trust
When you happen to be with a girl in an intimate setting, what you tell her is crucial, says Milton Diamond, author of Sex Watching. Both love and sex are forms of communication. Talking in bed is your most powerful weapon. “I'm just crazy about some of the men, apparently the most mediocre,” says 28-year-old Harriet. “For me, sexuality is first of all a sexy voice and the ability to communicate.”
Of course, girls like flattering, intelligent and subtle conversations. But keep in mind that women have a supernatural ability to catch when they are deceived. They remember your lies for a long time. We will listen to the advice of a 28-year-old Jerry, very popular among my girlfriends: "If you want to get a girl in bed, do not start to brag that you are heading an international company, especially if you are just a trade clerk. She immediately feels false, and then you will never be able to get under her blanket. "
Flattery, as already noted, is a good tool, but there are also rules here. Yes, it is pleasant for any woman when she is perceived as the charming goddess of love. But tell her how caring she is, gentle, understanding, admit that she is the only person with whom you can really talk, and her heart will melt much faster. Act carefully. If your girl has big breasts, do not hold your attention on them. Pretend that they do not attract you at all, and she will be pleasantly surprised that a man is really talking to her in order to talk.
So what do women want to hear from you? Studies show that trustful conversations that make them feel smart and sexy are most important for women. Is it too abstract for you? All right, we will result some approved methods operating almost faultlessly.
The method of "arouse sympathy" (the appearance of a lulling feeling of complete security is guaranteed). "I never understood women. Maybe you will try to help me?" Pause for an affirmative answer and to continue: "Tell me how you see the perfect man."
The method "I-need-something-more-than-just-climb-to-you-in-cowards . " "Why is it so hard to find a woman who would like a really serious relationship? I don’t see any point in just sleeping — you never know a person like that."
The method "to cause sympathy on the contrary . " "No matter you look today, what happened?" It is very important to bring your interlocutor into a frank conversation about yourself, during which she will be filled with great confidence in you. But be careful: some women may misunderstand you and go on a counter-offensive on the principle of "look at yourself better."
Once you have won a woman’s confidence, consider that you have traveled most of the way. “My perfect man loves women,” says Rosalind, 28, “But when he’s with me, I always feel that all his thoughts are only about me. I feel that he is really here ... with me, that I am his joy. I’m calm with him. I don’t need to hide anything. He understands me with his mind, heart and flesh. "
In seducing a woman, three things play a major role: charisma, sex appeal and trust. Charisma is not directly related to external data. “Charismatic people are often far from handsome,” says psychologist Ray Bull. “But they know how to adjust character and social behavior to their appearance, and they always reckon with the fact that with one glance you will not be fascinated by them.” Wendy, 26, fully agrees with him: "The sexiest men I knew were those who never give up: not obsessive and aggressive, but stubborn and incredibly charming. It is very difficult to refuse a man who so obviously wants you and this is achieved. "
Achieving sex appeal is easy. It all comes down to two things: the ability to listen and the knowledge of sign language. No woman can resist a man who really listens to her: do not do anything, just be interested. People who feel that all their speeches are perceived with great attention immediately endow the listener with all sorts of virtues. All you have to do is keep your mouth shut.
Then sign language: react to what she says and copy her gestures. “Synchronization of gestures is an effective way to win the interlocutor,” explains Sandra Sedzhibir, author of the book “Sexual Power” ( “Power of Sex” ). - Equal gestures indicate the same attitude to the topic being discussed, from which it is automatically concluded that your views are intimate " . Add to all this confidential intonation, and no woman will refuse you. “Another posture is important,” adds Sandra Sedzhibir. “The way you sit or sit can say a lot about you. For example, a man with lowered shoulders gives the impression of a defenseless, unhappy person. But the posture of a confidential conversation: the body is straight, the head is tilted slightly forward".
Do not hesitate: show!
To impress, use all that you have. If you know that women like your ass, wear tight jeans. Have an expressive look - often look into the eyes of the interlocutor. Train in front of the mirror! Attract attention to those parts of your body that are counting on women's affection: put on, say, a fashionable belt - her eyes will necessarily linger on a beautiful buckle, and immediately there will inevitably be a thought about what's inside, under her pants.
Polls show that 80 percent of women in a man pay attention primarily to the eyes: hit her with your incredibly sexy gaze (having previously practiced, as already noted, in front of a mirror). Your pupils - at least at first - should expand from the depth of her eyes! Studies conducted by N. Reichold, the author of the book "The Tell-Tale Eye" ( "Eloquent Look" ), showed that the pupils of most men at the sight of a pretty woman really expand, which is not observed, for example,
when meeting with another man. Learn to expand and contract the pupils, and your interlocutor will understand how shocked you are (even if this is not quite the case). Everything is very simple. Look into the distance, and then again in her eyes - the pupils will automatically change their size and show your excitement.
Eye contact is a powerful force. Do not neglect them! Here is what 26-year-old Diana says, for example: “I don’t know if I ran away from his long eyelashes, or from my eagerly narrowed eyes that brought me to seizures. Guys who behave like supermen and immediately fall on the sofa, I always had antipathy. "
Remember: the summoning gaze is a real treasure; do not hesitate to use it!
Here and now
It may seem strange, but a gorgeous dinner in the most expensive restaurant is not so necessary for seduction. “Home dinner works more efficiently,” explains 27-year-old Nick. “Girls are always impressed by the fact that you know how to handle pots, even if you really can't do anything.” (Nick usually buys a ready-made lunch and puts it in his dishes so that everything looks at home.) "For most women, a man as a cook is a wonder, and they are already quite intrigued by this," he continues. "Well, of course, to eat at home is to be closer to the bed. "
Another great way to drag a woman wherever you want is the so-called sympathy fuck. Andy, in the recent past, is a great expert on this technique: “Tell her that your lover left you, that it was very hard for you and you could not spend this weekend alone — there would be no denial. The room should have two beds. We went to bed: she is in her bed - she wonders when the attack will start, but you don’t pay any attention to her and quietly snuffle. Once she realizes that nothing is planned, she will be offended - is her pulling force so weak? - and she herself will take action. "
As you know, the retreat at a speed of knots that unexpectedly replaced a resolute offensive only helps women overcome the last centimeters that separate you.
Massage with value
It is your guest, and you already want a physical rendezvous. Just do not pounce on her like a beast! Leave her room for maneuver. The main thing - do not frighten. Women cannot stand only sexual objects. Do not float a sledgehammer, and do not drool. The best way to put down your vigilance is to treat her gently and carefully. If you decide to kiss, do not try to go to remove her tonsils without anesthesia. The 30-year-old Sarah says: "One guy I really wanted, I just became disgusting when, in the middle of a phrase, I suddenly jumped at me and put my tongue in my mouth. I almost bit it off!"
Turning to the weasel, show restraint! You do not earn extra points if you grab your girlfriend’s breasts when she passes you a chocolate sponge cake. Listen to the words of 22-year-old Nika and draw conclusions: “The worst type of men are those who regard an invitation to a cup of coffee as an invitation to sleep. A real man will inhale the scent of your perfume and only lightly touch his skin with his lips. A real man gently strokes your neck, when you watch a movie. Once at the cinema, the guy spent only two hours playing with my hair and caressing my neck. By the end of the session, I was only thinking about the bed. "
And if you really want to take decisive action, take the advice of a 31-year-old Patrick and try a massage. “Massage is one of the fastest ways of seduction,” he explains. “You shouldn’t immediately touch your whole body, it’s much better to start with light strokes of hands and back; then she herself will trust you more. You’ll not have time to notice how you find yourself in bed” .
If your girlfriend is too shy to settle for a massage, ask her to read fortunes. (Women baldeyut from men with mystical inclinations: you immediately give the impression of a spiritual person, and therefore, sensual and capable not only to print a pack of condoms.) The advantage of this pseudo-chiromancy is that you get the opportunity to caress her hand (start with folds elbows - her goosebumps will immediately run). Then tell her something curious: like the fact that, judging by the lines of the hand, she finally met the man of her dreams. The ice will quickly melt.
As for the massage, there are some contraindications. You should not, for example, knead the skin like a dough: erotic inspiration will not increase, but bruises are quite possible. We need rhythmic, sliding stroking of the most erogenous areas of the body:
Neck. Very light caressing the back side and circular, tickling the movement of the thumb under the chin. The more tender, the more true. Lay the path to the back of the head - this is a very sensitive part of the body.
Back of the head. Circular stroking the palm of the head through the vertebrae will transmit excitement directly into the vagina.
Shoulders. Squeeze your shoulders with your fingers and massage them a little above, then go down to the spine.
Spine. There are points directly connected with the centers of sexual reactions. Press the thumb and index fingers on one and the other side of the vertebrae and slide them downwards. Then massage the rest of the back. Do not push too hard; maximum - to the level of your client's easy okkanya.
Feet. If she allows a foot massage, consider that you are already at the goal. (Feet for most people is a very sensitive and intimate area.) Here lubrication is desirable: use some kind of baby cream. Rub their heels, and then with your palms - the feet themselves.
Ankles Here, at a height of a few centimeters, there are points at which, according to Chinese experts, sexual energy is concentrated, which can turn your girl into an insatiable tigress. Massage these points for about thirty seconds, and just sparks will sprinkle from it.
Arms. Slide your fingers on the palms of your darling, then squeeze her fingers and gently caress them. Take the palm with both hands, stroke: this is very exciting for many women.
During the massage, do not forget to repeat what her wonderful, smooth, unusually delicate skin. When your lady relaxes enough, lay her down and massage your legs along the entire length, up to the hips, avoiding, however, more widely known erogenous zones. Now she is already so excited that she wonders why you are not embarking on the main thing. Having brought her to the "white heat", you can not take care of anything else and let her finish the rest of the work. With all these sudden stops, the onslaught alternating with the retreats, you will put it in front of the need to decide to seize the initiative, because the only thing that a woman cannot stand is uncertainty. Play cat and mouse with her!
Of course, all of the above is just a scenario. Your concern is now to turn it into reality. If, nevertheless, your passion does not rush to your neck, tearing off your clothes from you, this does not mean anything. Either you did something wrong, or your charm is not enough. Between us, boys, speaking, far from everyone is able to go straight off, in 24 hours to shake the girl out of her clothes and put her in her bed. Usually these guys have names like Costner or Gibson. So maybe you should change your profession?