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How to interest a woman in the first ten minutes of dating

Как заинтересовать женщину в первые десять минут знакомства

A woman is a female person of gender or gender. The word “woman” usually refers to an adult, and the words “girl” and “girl” are used to refer to a child or adolescent. In some cases, the word “woman” is used regardless of age, for example in the expression “women's rights”. The word “woman” can also mean gender identity, not gender. Typically, a woman from puberty to menopause can give birth to children and breastfeed, although some women - in particular, infertile, intersex and transgender - cannot.

Girl - a female person from the moment of adulthood, the criterion of which is puberty, until marriage.

You know, people "read" each other in the first minutes of a meeting? See how it sounds like an interesting “book” .

Your approach

She sees you. Her brain instantly evaluates your height and the symmetry of your face. Now let her feel your character. Approach confidently, do not pretend that accidentally stumbled upon her. “Men usually talk while standing slightly apart from each other to avoid confrontation,” says Helen Fisher, author of Why We Love. “And the women are facing each other and maintain eye-to-eye contact . Do the same.

Your view

A good handshake is not a short track to her bed, but a bad handshake can cross your chances at once. There are many nerve endings in the palms, and people with weak handshakes and wet hands are perceived to be shy and nervous, as was shown in a recent study at the University of Alabama (USA). Everything should be something like this: hold the glass in your left hand, and with your right hand shake her hand tightly, but not squeezing it. And pay attention to her handshake: the same study says that women with a stronger handshake are more prone to adventure.

Your voice

As recently discovered by Scottish scientists, the most beautiful women prefer men with a low voice. It indicates a high level of testosterone, which is a sign of strength and reproductive abilities. Speak on the diaphragm (so that your stomach rises when you inhale). This increases the column of air that passes through your vocal cords. “Sounds like a built-in subwoofer ,” says Joan Joella, voice trainer.

Your way to start a conversation

Say something to let you know more about her. “Your friends seem to be nice people, how did you meet them?” Is both a compliment and a window to her past. New acquaintances cause a surge of dopamine, which raises the mood. “Show her your interest with the help of verbal“ nods ”(“ aha, ”“ mm! ”),” Advises Alex Pentland, professor at the Massachusetts Institute of Technology, who has developed a program that evaluates the compatibility of meeting participants for “quick dating .

Your questions and answers

You already know that you need to ask a lot of questions and not brag about yourself. But you should not undermine your authority without the need. “Women are carefully looking for signs of status and wealth in a conversation ,” says Fisher. Do not immediately reveal all the facts about your financial or personal success: let her curiosity get the upper hand and make her ask you questions. Another important conversation tip: speak at the same pace as she speaks, and she will find you smart, kind, confident and ambitious. To such conclusions scientists from the University of Maryland (USA).

Your body language

Mutual appeal makes couples copy each other's body language. But do not rush to establish contact in this way. “Be relaxed and let her set the tone for communication,” advises Liza Clampett, founder of Matchmaking Institute. Fussy movements transmit nervousness and cause the release of chemical elements related to stress in her brain. “If she suddenly pats you on the shoulder or thigh, answer the same in a minute or two ,” says Fisher. Or touch the inside of her forearm, which is rich in nerve endings that spark a spark of interest.

Your finishing touch

If you made a pleasant first impression, she might think about how you are in bed. “Consciously or unconsciously,” continues Helen Fisher, “she is looking for signs that you will be patient and respect how she loves to have fun.” Show her that it is. Prove yourself versed in art, in passing tell about your enthusiasm for extreme sports, if possible, give a note of the taste of wine. Show yourself sensual, and she will want to give you the final exam at home.

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