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How to interest a woman in the first ten minutes of dating

Как заинтересовать женщину в первые десять минут знакомства

A woman is a female or gender. The word “woman” usually means an adult, and the words “girl” and “girl” are used to designate a child or teenager. In some cases, the word “woman” is used regardless of age, for example, in the expression “women's rights”. The word “woman” can also mean gender identity, not gender. Usually, a woman from puberty to menopause can give birth to children and breastfeed them, although some women — in particular, infertile, intersexual and transgender — cannot.

The girl is a female from the moment of coming of age, the criterion of which is sexual maturity, before marriage.

You know, people "read" each other in the first minutes of the meeting? See how it seems to be an interesting "book . "

Your approach

She sees you. Her brain instantly assesses your height and the symmetry of your face. Now let her feel your character. Approach confidently, do not pretend that you accidentally stumbled upon it. “Men usually talk standing apart from each other to avoid confrontation,” says Helen Fisher, author of the book Why We Love. “And women face each other and maintain eye-to-eye contact . Do the same.

Your presentation

A good handshake is not a short path to her bed, but a bad one can cross your chances at once. There are many nerve endings in the palms, and people with a weak handshake and wet hands are perceived as timid and nervous, as was shown in a recent study at the University of Alabama (USA). Everything should be something like this: hold the glass in your left hand, and right hand squeeze her hand tightly, but not squeezing. And pay attention to her handshake: in the same study it is said that women with a stronger handshake are more prone to adventure.

Your voice

As recently discovered by Scottish scientists, the most beautiful women prefer men with a low voice. It indicates a high level of testosterone, which is a sign of strength and reproductive abilities. Speak on the diaphragm (so that your stomach lifts when inhaling). This increases the pillar of air that passes through your vocal cords. “It looks like a built-in subwoofer ,” says voice instructor Joan Joella.

Your way to make conversation

Say something that will let you know more about her. “Your friends seem to be nice people, how did you meet them?” Is both a compliment and a window into her past. New acquaintances cause a surge of dopamine, which improves mood. “Show her your interest with the help of verbal“ nods ”(“ aha ”,“ mm! ”),” Advises Alex Pentland, a professor at the Massachusetts Institute of Technology, who developed a program that assesses the compatibility of meeting participants for “quick acquaintance” .

Your questions and answers

You already know that you have to ask a lot of questions and not to brag about yourself. But do not even undermine their authority without the need. “Women carefully look for signs of status and wealth in a conversation ,” says Fisher. Do not immediately give all the facts about your financial or personal success: let her curiosity take over and force her to ask you questions. Another important conversation advice: speak at the same pace in which she speaks, and she will find you smart, kind, confident and ambitious. These conclusions are scientists from the University of Maryland (USA).

Your body language

Mutual attraction makes couples copy each other’s body language. But do not rush to make contact in this way. “Stay relaxed and let her set the tone for communication,” advises the founder of the Matchmaking Institute, Lisa Clampett. Fussy movements transmit nervousness and cause the release of chemical elements associated with stress in her brain. “If suddenly she pats you on the shoulder or thigh, answer the same in a minute or two ,” says Fisher. Or touch the inside of her forearm, which is rich in nerve endings that spark a spark of interest.

Your finishing touch

If you had a pleasant first impression, she might wonder what you are like in bed. "Consciously or subconsciously," continues Helen Fisher, "she is looking for signs that you are patient and respectful of how she likes to have fun." Show her that it is. Show yourself well-versed in art, in passing tell me about your passion for extreme sport, and if you have occasion, give a note of the taste of wine. Show yourself sensual, and she will want to give you a final exam at home.

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