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How to interest a woman in the first ten minutes of dating

Как заинтересовать женщину в первые десять минут знакомства

A woman is a man of gender or gender. The word "woman" usually refers to an adult, and to refer to a child or adolescent, the words "girl" and "girl" are used. In some cases, the word "woman" is used regardless of age, for example, in the expression "women's rights". The word "woman" can also denote gender identity, not gender. Usually a woman during the period from puberty to menopause can bear children and breastfeed them, although some women - in particular, infertile, intersexual and transgender - can not.

The girl is a female face from the moment of coming of age, the criterion of which is sexual maturity, before marriage.

You know, people "read" each other in the first minutes of the meeting? Look, how to seem to it an interesting "book" .

Your approach

She sees you. Her brain instantly assesses your growth and the symmetry of your face. Now let her feel your character. Come close confidently, do not pretend that you accidentally stumbled upon it. "Men usually talk standing slightly apart from each other to avoid confrontation," says Helen Fisher, author of Why We Love. "And women stand facing each other and keep eye contact in the eye . " Do the same.

Your presentation

A good handshake is not a short path to her bed, but a bad one can at once cross out your chances. There are many nerve endings in the palms, and people with weak handshake and wet hands are perceived timid and nervous, as demonstrated in a study recently conducted at the University of Alabama (USA). Everything should be like this: keep the glass in your left hand, and the right squeeze her hand tightly, but without squeezing. And pay attention to her handshake: in the same study it is said that women with a stronger handshake are more inclined to adventure.

Your voice

As recently discovered by Scottish scientists, the most beautiful women prefer men with low voice. It indicates a high level of testosterone, which is a sign of strength and reproductive abilities. Speak on the diaphragm (so that your stomach rises when you inhale). This increases the air column that passes through your vocal cords. "It looks like a built-in subwoofer ," says voice trainer Joan Joell.

Your way to start a conversation

Say something that will allow you to know more about her. "Your friends seem to be nice people, how did you meet them?" - is both a compliment and a window in her past. New acquaintances cause a rush of dopamine, which raises the mood. "Show her your interest with verbal" nods "(" yeah, "" mm! ")," Advises Professor Alexandra Pentland, a professor at the Massachusetts Institute of Technology, who developed a program that assesses the compatibility of meeting participants for "quick acquaintance . "

Your questions and answers

You already know that you need to ask a lot of questions and do not brag about yourself. But do not undermine your authority without the need. "Women are carefully looking for signs of status and wealth in the conversation ," says Fisher. Do not immediately reveal all the facts about your financial or personal success: let her curiosity get the upper hand and get her to ask you questions. Another important advice for a conversation: speak at the same pace as she says, and she will consider you smart, kind, confident and ambitious. To such conclusions came the scientists from the University of Maryland (USA).

Your body language

Mutual attraction makes couples copy the body language of each other. But do not rush to make contact in this way. "Be relaxed and let her set the tone for communication," advises the founder of the Matchmaking Institute, Lisa Clampett. Fussy movements transmit nervousness and cause in her brain the release of chemical elements associated with stress. "If she suddenly shatters you on the shoulder or on her thigh, answer the same in a minute or two ," says Fisher. Or touch the inside of her forearm, which is rich in nerve endings, sparking a spark of interest.

Your finishing touch

If you had a pleasant first impression, she might wonder what you are in bed. "Consciously or unconsciously," continues Helen Fisher, "she is looking for signs that you are patient and respectful of how she likes to have fun." Show her that this is so. Show yourself versed in the art, in passing, tell us about the passion for extreme sports, on occasion call the notes of the taste of wine. Show yourself sensual, and she will want to give you the final exam at home.

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