Everyone copes with it in their own way

Of course, the situation is very difficult. Cancer is a deadly disease, the strongest traumatic event. And then, as you lead yourself depends on your personality, how you deal with other life adversities.
"People do not become different when they found the cancer, said Dr. Barrie Cassileth. They are the same as before. If a person who is easy to panic, he panicked. If he is of those who are in front of the test person is falling apart, it will also react to the diagnosis. "
Women who have learned that they have cancer, are likely to experience a whole range of emotions, described in detail the specialist dying Elizabeth Kubler-Ross, a doctor of philosophy: refusal to accept, fear, anger, frustration, depression, hope, acceptance. But every woman goes through it in their own way. "We should not expect that everything will be in the book," says Dr. Holland.
"Everyone goes through it, says Joan Sipollini, a registered nurse, a specialist in the care of cancer patients from Montgomery Cancer Center, part of the Fox Chase Cancer Center in Norristown, Pennsylvania. The difference is that one is tested for five minutes, every 5 minutes more. "
Judith Martindale says that her first reaction was, "Why me"
"I did not have any risk factors, she said. I kept thinking, how could this happen? I have always led a healthy life, I always eat right and give yourself exercise. The idea that I could develop cancer, never crossed my mind. "
Although for some time, Judith lived in fear, lost in self-pity, gradually took over the properties of her personality. "My motto has always been:" I myself can not do it. " I realized that I can not find an answer to the question: "Why do I," but I can choose: to what doctor to address, what method of treatment to choose where to be treated. This allowed me to feel that I am back in some way to dispose of his own life in circumstances that seemingly did not leave such a possibility. "