Women, more than men, have the ability to "turn the other cheek" when faced with her husband's betrayal. This is confirmed by the fact that the Don Juan still remain husbands.
“Sometimes a woman decides not to pay attention to adultery, especially if her husband is otherwise comfortable with her,” says Dr. Glasse. This happens quite often. A woman may not want to destroy the marriage because of the children. And let's not forget that usually a divorce has a serious effect on her financial situation, whereas a man’s financial situation worsens due to divorce much less often.
Often, she continues, women prefer to divide their husbands, but not to lose them. They do not want to lose the status of the wife of a rich or famous person. Often women are afraid of loneliness. ”
Unfortunately for wives, sometimes men for the same reasons do not dissolve the marriage. Therefore, when the children grow up and the man is no longer obliged to support them, the husband often leaves the family ship, leaving his wife alone, aged, disappointed and embittered.
“My husband was fond of every skirt, and I knew that, says 55-year-old Stella Jenks. I once found a bill for a sofa that he bought for his office. I did not divorce him because of the children, thinking that they do not know what he is doing. When the children graduated from college, he left the family and married his last girlfriend. A woman of the same age with our eldest daughter. Later I found out that the children all knew all these years. They thought that I did not suspect anything. ”