Do not get caught on the hook

Understand that the feeling of guilt that you feel and the other women, has no basis. Uorshou R. writes: "Society does not blame the victims of most crimes. About the victim of a robbery addict does not say that she deserved it, because that on her arm had a watch and wallet in his pocket. Similarly, a company does not say that she was asking for it, if it is burnt, and not blame the shopkeeper that he gave the money from the cash to the robber threatened him. All these crimes were committed because the criminals have conceived and implemented them. " Why, then, do we blame victims of rape?
Tell us about what happened to you qualified counselor-psychologist or a close friend, girlfriend, you can rely on, or find a support group. This will help you cope with the weathered and maintain self-esteem. "The same women who had undergone the same thing and you will help you to strengthen their sense of personal value," says Dr. Kose.
Understand that you are not the only woman with whom such a misfortune. "Your position will facilitate the understanding of the fact that today it is a common crime, said R. Uorshou. If this happens to thousands of other women just like you, then, sadly, it can happen to you. "