Faithful to you ...

If your marriage or your relationship involving mutual obligations, the road you, you know that loyalty is not a thing that you can easily buy or which can just as easily give up.
"Any relationship requires work on them," says Dr. Loehr. Some men and women make mistakes because they intermarried with unrealistic expectations. When the physical excitement, intensity of sexual attraction begin to subside, they discover that the relationship between them is also changing. It happens often, but the relationship is not necessarily change for the worse.
In most cases the first pair goes through a period of blind passion, expression of the physical changes that, in the words of Dr. Fisher, "the brain is flooded with chemicals," intoxicated with amphetamines produced by the body. Like any other type of narcotic substances, they stop working, and we are entering a period of the next period of attachment, more peaceful, and more secure at the same time a deeper love. "But a lot of people are getting married, falling in love with love, says Dr. Loehr. They see a time when everything is forgotten, and when all the senses on high, the best time. But come the first difficulties, and they are beginning to recognize that marriage is work. Affair presents a simple solution to the problems, because they return to a condition peculiar to the beginning of married life, and help to ignore the problem. "
"Couples who respect the commitments made in relation to one another, focus their efforts on strengthening marriage and not on extramarital affairs, helping them avoid rather than to solve problems that arise in the course of living together," she said.
"When we offered the respondent pairs graphically represent their ups and downs, the charts were similar to the movement of the vessel with a strong roll, says Dr. Loehr. But they overcame all, remaining faithful to the commitments made at marriage, the very institution of marriage and, most importantly, his wife, in which they saw best friend. And true to its commitments over time has led to the fact that between them have formed strong bonds, they have learned to cope with the conflicts which even improved their life together. "
She advises couples to find time for each other. "In this life, filled with chores, so easily turn into two vessels, sailing at night. If you have a best friend, this means that you should want to spend time together. Review your priorities and change their places, if you find it necessary. Rather than divide household duties, do them together. This will require more time, but will bring more fun. Pay attention to your plans and your relationship take a special place. Set a schedule for sex. It sounds awful, but the anticipation can make part of the fun.