The fair sex and the perfect solution

There is not the slightest prescriptions, some details should be family life with two working spouses, but there is a goal to which we should strive. "This is not equality, says Dr. Gilbert, but justice, the feeling that everyone makes or receives a fair share. Have you ever heard that two people who are married, earned exactly the same way and possessed exactly the same time? she asks. In the past we, the researchers sought to marriage equality, and all came to the conclusion that there is no "equality in marriage.
But equality is not all. Good marriages are not necessarily based on equality or even sharing out equally and on a sense of justice. That is, in the full confidence that your needs are met. If not now, then later.
In Karelia Robert is such a marriage. Both she and her husband David occupy administrative positions in Fortune 500 companies and raise two sons. In the family division of labor is fully meets the traditional. "I do not think he's ever cleaned the toilet, said Carolyn. On the other hand, I never had to change the oil in your car. In our family, I do most of the "women's" work, he takes on "men's work" and we both take care of the children. I would say that it works. I am very happy".
Caroline and her husband, along with other couples in the United States, where both husband and wife work, blaze new trails in our changing society, and it requires courage and vision. They are challenging traditions, condemns women to the kitchen and the nursery, and the men to premature death due to stress. They form the vanguard of a new revolution; people who relieve each other from the yoke of the old rules and, said Helen Bergey, develop new rules on the fly.
See also:. Homework, Superwoman Syndrome.