Develop your ability

Sometimes the choices made in his mature years, hurts because often, choosing one, you have to give up the other. For example, a woman who decides to write a book, can be forced to give up his dream to become a doctor of philosophy simply because it will not have time to do both.
Fortunately, the pain you experience, making your choice, as it always happens at the moment of birth, correlates directly with the amount of advance preparation.
How to prepare yourself for such a birth? "If you come to the middle of life, having assets just a pretty face, you're in trouble, says Dr. Ochinkloss. But if you come at this time, having the knowledge and skills that allow you to gain self-esteem and independence, while the years of maturity will be the time for you to creative activity and spiritual growth.
A woman who knows how to get down to business, such as how to put into circulation the money to teach children to write a book, put the case in a restaurant or perform laboratory tests to be aware of its value and use their knowledge and skills as the basis for further development. In fact, her knowledge and skills are material, using which it re-creates itself.
That is why a lot of women in mid-life begins to learn, adds Dr. Ochinkloss. They feel the need for additional knowledge for self-improvement. The usual thing, when "beauty queen", has turned into a housewife and raise children, then achieves a degree in mathematics. "