Take a look at the life of wider

In fact, many women are single, who feel unhappy, talk this way: life begins with marriage. A marriage is something that happens to you when you're young. "But they do not notice, says Dr. Weiss, that life offers many interesting opportunities, often these, which can be a dream."
"Some unmarried women think that if they do not get married soon, they will long to live real life, says Dr. Weiss. They fear that they grow old, they will have wrinkles and they will forever lose their attractiveness to men. They are unable to see into the future, to realize that they are waiting for other periods of human life. They think that the only man whom they might be interested in, may be 30-year-old bachelor. They do not realize that as they get older, they may become attractive to men in other age groups. They do not realize that not all life develops according to type.
Many women remain at the mercy of children's dreams, in which there is certainly a beautiful white dress and Prince Charming, as they are too young and have not yet experienced because of the appearance of gray hair and other signs that a youth is gone. If dreams do not come true, they take themselves in hand and try to stay.
They believe that by s0-five years it is imperative to get married, and when it does not work, decide that life has not worked, they are losers, "continues Dr. Weiss.
But this is a very limited view of things. "We need to be able to see the different possibilities, she said. Ahead you will find a whole life, even if it is not so, as it seemed, whether you stay one forever, or get married, or get married and then divorce. In life there is always room for a wealth of impressions. But you fix attention on one of the possibilities, and the others perceive as a continuous dark spot. You need to get out of this state and learn to enjoy life, to enjoy for yourself. "
Allison Harvey understood how important it is to look broadly at things. Instead of waiting for marriage and as a result become the owner of the house, she bought an old house and began to rebuild it. Weekends she spends in finding sold garages or car racing. And the man with whom she met, not like for her children's dreams. First of all, her 39 years, and he was 24.
Allison says that up to 30 years, it has rejected two offers to marry, because up to 35 years the idea of ​​marriage terrified her. But when the marriage was a welcome, all the men of a certain age had disappeared. And then it has expanded its presentation and drew attention to men younger than themselves.
"To be honest, I thought he was older, and he thought I was younger, but the age difference is not a problem, she concludes. We, of course, a different experience, but it's just interesting. "