conflict of interest

Psychologist Mardi Dyrlend, Ph.D., who conducted in-depth survey of 100 women who have no children, found that most of them like children, but a higher value on other aspects of life, such as their own careers, or chat with friends, play a big role in their life.
"I was expecting to meet more women who do not like children, but they were in the minority, said Dr. Ireland University of California at Berkeley (her own children there). But it was, rather, women, highly prized equitable nature of the relationship and feared that with the advent of children, it will change. They also appreciated the personal freedom, a way of life, which would allow to make quick decisions, the ability to engage in creative work, and felt that they could not succeed immediately in both arenas. "
Some of the women interviewed by Dr. Ireland, even checked himself, voluntarily spending time with the children of their friends and relatives. "So they tested how strong their desire for children. And they have decided to "not-so-great," she says.
Other studies have shown that women who did not want to have children, often highly educated, show interest in their work and have achieved great success; they believed that motherhood would not bring them the satisfaction. Many believe that a career and children are incompatible, that even in the "equal" status childcare is women's responsibility.
Elsa Harrow, a 34-year-old woman, absorbed in research, said she is confident that children would become a source of conflict, while for ten years, she has quite happily married. "Ed psychologist, he works until 9 o'clock at night, so I one would have to do everything, and I know that I would be irritated. I know that would begin to reproach him for what he was working late, and would feel something like a single mother. "