Career against marriage
There may be situations where the interests of a career you put above your relationship, but not to such an extent as to strike a fatal blow to the marriage. It may happen, for example, that you have to choose whether to stay at home with your sick husband or go to work because you are delivering a project. “You can make a decision in favor of your career, knowing that it will not affect your relationship, although at some point your husband will be hurt, says Dr. Bout.
You do not have to constantly sacrifice a career in favor of your relationship just because you are used to it or your husband expects it from you. If you do this, you may miss your chance, your career will be less successful, and you will be unhappy.
I think that ultimately the relationship should come out first, Dr. Bout concludes, but it is not necessary that this happen in each particular case. ”