The same good girl as you
“Sometimes, she says, it’s just a blast of love, and the marital status, moral considerations no longer stop. Many, many women find that the man of your dreams was already busy, but the power of attraction is so strong that the old bans on love with a married man do not work. Your desire to be loved is sometimes stronger than this taboo, continues Dr. Bitner. And this desire for love, as well as the prohibition of love, always go together. ”
There are other, very prosaic reasons why women find themselves in connection with a married man. In his book "New Other Woman", a professor of sociology at Ohio State University, Laurel Richardson, writes that the current demographic environment, cultural trends and realities are pushing into illicit relationships. Statistics show that for several reasons, the number of single men decreases, creating, in the words of Dr. Richardson, "a striking shortage of men for single women over 27 years old." “At the same time, she notes, society demands that a woman, if she wants to be considered“ normal, ”be part of a heterosexual couple. With the existing demographic restrictions, she writes, many single women who set themselves the goal of finding a mate have to do this in a way that is not approved by society. ”
“For objective reasons, Dr. Richardson notes, two groups of women are especially inclined to seek“ heterosexual relations ”in the arms of someone else’s husband: older women,“ suitable ”men for whom are more likely to be already employed (among single women over 55 about 45 percent have a relationship with a married man), and women engaged in their careers, who came to the conclusion that they have enough free time, will only have this kind of connection, that is, “bezrybe and cancer fish”.